Sad for mum

These few weeks, I know mum is always troubled by Yi's wedding... But things just doesn't seem to be resolved... I understand wat sort of character mum is... She is a natural worrier... plus she doesn't really know alot of things... maybe becos she doesn't have much 见识.. but that doesn't mean she dun care... or i should say maybe she care or worried too much (inside her heart) and doesn't know how to express... my thailand incident is the best example...

I tot I shd check things out for her, regarding the things she doesn't know... after hearing from Irene and Eileen, I gathered that some of the things should be initiated by the groom side... but becos my mum doesn't know, she din ask on the day... now she told yi about it, he say he will check it out... honestly, i dun know if he will check... why i say that is because he dun even care abt the tradition... in his eyes, all he cares is what they ask, he will give... but we are just telling him that we shd take back some portion of the things brought over... he say he doesn't care if they return... then mum thinks that he doesn't want to oblige to her... then he say what they ask may not be correct and we only hear say and they may be wrong too... come on, we dun know, that is why we ask... u can say it is wrong, but we can say it is right... why does he prefer to listen to them and not us?

I know mum is sad... plus my dad dun even care... but i dun know how to help... I am feeling sad for my mum... feel so bad now...